Tuesday, 26 January 2010 17:52

Finding context for your photos when you can't control clutter

Written by Adrienne Gray

Yesterday was my daughter's first-ever gymnastics lesson.  Gush.  I can't tell you that this post isn't a great excuse to tell you how proud I am that we may have found an outlet for our super-active chatterbox (after our *ahem* interesting experience with ballet), or how entertained I am by her fearlessness. But if I'm going down the emotional rabbit trail of my parenting experience, I need to disclose that it was a real nail-biter.


Ah, the push and pull of parenting. Let go. Stay close. Hide in the bleachers so you're there for the inevitable potty break, but

not distracting. Let the coach discipline her. After the 4th or 5th "Sydney please stay in line" jump in and reinforce the discipline.

And, of course, take pictures.  But from the bleachers. 'Cause let's face it, my child needs no help in the distraction department.

This was a real challenge. Not just because I was doing my best to be invisible, but for a myriad of reasons. Like having to choose between using a zoom and really pumping up the iso, or sticking with my 50mm so I could make use of the wide 1.8 aperture, allowing me to keep my ISO at around 800. And if I used the 50mm, how to compose around all the clutter of a gym. Not to mention, waiting for pictures that didn't include other kids who's parents I'd just met!  Yup, no one wants to be the psycho parent on the first day of class!

So, aside from the parental nail-biting, what did I learn? For starters - if I'm documenting my daughter's firsts in less-than-stellar lighting from 100 ft away while banished to the parental bull-pen, I need to lower my expectations!  These are the shots that will make the family scrapbook, but not win any visual awards. And that's more than fine to this Momtographer!

But still, I always want to do my best when it comes to my camera.  So if I keep my eyes open for opportunities that make visual impact, it's likely I'll find one or two that are less than horrible. In the pictures below, amidst the clutter of the gym, I waited for my daughters tiny silhouette to line up with a space of blank wall - it was her only hope of standing out!  It also helped to convert the photos to black and white - they're much more forgiving when it comes to mismatched colors and even iso grain.

 



The bottom line? Our little champion has a long road ahead, but she's showing definite enthusiasm! And her mommy still has a long way to go to figure out how to get great shots from the bullpen, but I'm happy I was there to document such a fun first.  And as to the parental push and pull, well, I've got no answers there, but wow, are these muscles sore!

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  • Comment Link kellyetaylorsmith Tuesday, 26 January 2010 18:27 posted by kellyetaylorsmith

    Me likey...very. very. much! What's just so amazing to me that even what you perceive to be photos destined only for the family scrapbook, are actually quite beautiful and worthy of an award in my ever-so humble opinion. Especially the very last one. It's very documentary-esque.

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  • Comment Link Adrienne Gray Tuesday, 26 January 2010 20:53 posted by Adrienne Gray

    Awe Kellye - thank ye. (Why is it that when we dialogue, I look for ways to end in "e"?)

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  • Comment Link Krista Njapa Tuesday, 26 January 2010 22:01 posted by Krista Njapa

    These are great Adrienne and a good example of how not to let imperfect circumstances stop you from taking fabulous pictures!

    p.s. ha ha at wanting to add an "e" to dialogue with Kellye! :)

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  • Comment Link Camillia Courts Thursday, 28 January 2010 18:47 posted by Camillia Courts

    Awww thats too adorable! Can't wait for my daughter to be old enough to be in gymnastics!

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  • Comment Link shannondilly Thursday, 28 January 2010 20:58 posted by shannondilly

    What a fun mommy moment! Thanks again for the reminder that it's more important to capture the moment than the "perfect" picture--although I must say I LOVE what you got of Sydney! The last one is priceless!!

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  • Comment Link MaileMia Friday, 29 January 2010 01:39 posted by MaileMia

    I love the last one too! I totally had an uh, duh moment while reading your post! This morning, the hubs and I took our youngest to her first story time at the library. Since it was her first time, I too, didn't want to be psycho parent w/the camera, haha! Unfortunately, I couldn't figure for the life of me, why my shots were kinda dark... uh, duh ISO! Ah well, I'll just "pretend" the next visit is the first, ha!

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    You must be so proud! That is a moment to remember and you captured it!! Truly inspirational!!

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